A key factor in “psychological resilience”, or the process of adapting to unexpected adversity, trauma, tragedy, threats, or stress, is having caring and supportive relationships within and outside the family, according to research by the American Psychological Association (APA).
Other factors include:
• Making realistic plans and executing them
• Positive view of self
• Confidence in your strengths and abilities
• Skills in communication and problem solving
• Managing strong feelings and impulses
APA outlines actions that increase personal resilience
• Make connections with family members, friends, or others to request and accept support. Civic groups, faith-based organizations, or volunteering to help others can make meaningful connections
• Consider crises as solvable problems. You can change how you interpret and respond to these events.
• Recognize that change occurs with increasing frequency. You can balance thoughtful acceptance of a situation with acting to change it.
• Move toward your goals, with regular small accomplishments
• Take decisive actions
• Look for opportunities for self-discovery and learning “life lessons” that may benefit others
• Develop confidence that you can address the issues. Others in the social support network may assist.
• Keep things in perspective, in relation to the great challenges faced by others
• Visualize your goals and aspirations
- Cultivate an optimistic outlook, and consider hope as essential as oxygen
• Take care of yourself with exercise, relaxation, balanced diet and lifestyle, medical attention
Additional strategies may assist: the process of adapting well in the face of adversity, trauma, tragedy, threats, or even significant sources of stress
-*What are your most effective strategies for building personal resilience in the face of challenges?